Really sorry to hear about the problems, and I completely understand this frustration. I wish we knew exactly what to do - but this is an extremely rare issue. But a few things we can try:
1) Just to confirm you went through all the steps here: http://www.reverieworld.com/forums/s...6&postcount=94
2) Look up you Users AppData/Local/ folder. Locate folder DoF and DoFUpdater and delete both of them
3) If it still doesn`t work - again in AppTate/Local/ look up Temp/RarSFXO/ locate file SECOND and delete it.
Please let us know if 2 or 3 worked for you.