theskeletonking - please confirm if I`m right - and at least some of these OOS happened during winter? Most likely when you the other player were using - fire arrows, fire trebuchets or fire with Dragons. This is a known OOS - and it will be fixed in the upcoming patch.
Also - if you ever get an OOS, be sure to restart the game after. If you attempt to PvP after an OOS it`s guaranteed to go OOS again in the next match.