I'm not sure if this will help but try making your settings go all medium and set your shadow quality to off. See if that helps your crashing.
I did that with my current temp GFX card and I survived a 30 minute siege with more units than last time and didn't crash. It's possible it has somthing to do with the shadow rendering.
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